But in what Oshie called "a perfect storm," Tim was able to make the trip with Oshie's aunt and sister on Thursday.
So he was there, when the buzzer sounded and the players flooded the ice and the emotions spilled over. He was there in person, as witness, to a moment that Oshie had been waiting for his whole life, and which he had made happen as one of the catalysts on the Capitals.
Oshie, who was acquired by Washington in a trade with the St. Louis Blues in 2015, finished the Stanley Cup Playoffs fourth on the team with 21 points (eight goals, 13 assists), behind Evgeny Kuznetsov (32), Alex Ovechkin (27) and Nicklas Backstrom (23). He had helped lift his team, in the way he had been taught by Tim, especially in a Game 4 (6-2 win) in which he had a goal and two assists.
"What a positive guy," Oshie said. "All the obstacles he has to deal with on a day in, day out basis. He still stays positive. He tells me after every game how proud he is of me. A lot of the character I get, a lot of the stuff I try to bring to this team, I get from him."
Oshie finally located his father on the ice. The men embraced. Later, after more interviews and more tears and more words that could barely contain what he was feeling and experiencing, they made their way to the Stanley Cup itself. They gathered together, his family, and took a picture with the Cup in front of them.