Kraken forward Jared McCann has always kept things close with the people he most trusts, and this past summer of personal change was no exception.
Between helping his mother, Erin, living for decades with multiple sclerosis, walk him down the aisle at his wedding or paying an old friend and ex-NHL forward, Joey Hishon, for private coaching in their Stratford, Ontario hometown, McCann stayed surrounded by those most interested in his personal betterment and well-being. His schedule, including a Team Canada stint overseas at the IIHF World Hockey Championship and a honeymoon in Italy, grew far too busy to dwell on the Kraken’s disappointing season overall.
And perhaps that non-rumination was best as McCann again leads the team with nine points, scoring his 100th career Kraken goal Tuesday against Colorado. Then again, to say McCann, 28, wasn’t focused at all on improving over last season would ignore his demeanor since being old enough to lace on skates.
“I’m pretty hard on myself most of the time,” McCann said. “No matter what I’ve done, I always feel like there’s room for more. Like I could be doing it better.”
And that remained true after last season ended with McCann’s goal totals down to 29 from a career-high 40 the prior campaign. Sure, he still won his second Pete Muldoon Award as team MVP – named after the legendary Seattle Metropolitans coach, who, coincidentally, grew up a century prior in the Ontario town of St. Marys a few miles from McCann’s family home.
You could probably blame the scoring dip largely on McCann being saddled with additional defensive responsibilities. Or, on luck, regression from a career-high shooting percentage.
But with McCann, excuses are never an option.
“He can be really hard on himself,” his mother said. “That’s just the way he’s wired. He can be hard on himself when he gets disappointed in himself. And then he tries. He tries harder.”
Few are closer to McCann than a mother first diagnosed with MS at age 18; numbness in her limbs and a loss of balance gradually becoming more frequent. Erin McCann and her husband, Matt, adopted a son, Justin, from Guatemala because she’d worried about childbirth issues.
Later, discovering she could still have children, she gave birth to a daughter, Jamie. Matt had a son, Jordan, from a prior marriage, so when youngest Jared was born, his mother was caring for four children.
She left her job at a bank to work as a receptionist for her husband’s construction and gravel business, figuring it easier to take time off if the children got sick. Once Jared was six weeks old – his siblings in school or daycare -- his mother brought him daily to the company’s office.
“So, it was him and I for a lot of the time,” his mother said. “We spent a lot of time together without the other kids during the day. He’d come to work, and then I’d take him somewhere to keep him busy. That’s why I think it was easier for us later on.”
It helped that his mother didn’t care about hockey.
Sure, she’d introduced Jared to Learn To Skate lessons by age 4, watching him cry through classes until big brother Justin began going with them. She’d also driven Jared to practices and games when his dad couldn’t. And helped him count the 1,000 pucks a week he shot against cinder block walls of an old horse manure bunker his father had cleared for him on their farm.
But his mother also never critiqued McCann’s play or asked about games unless he brought it up.
“I don’t question him,” she said. “If you want my advice, then ask me. I don’t tell him what to do.”
McCann had several long talks with his mother earlier in his career, bouncing from the Vancouver Canucks team that drafted him 24th overall in 2014 on to the Florida Panthers and Pittsburgh Penguins before the Kraken selected him in the July 2021 expansion draft. The rest is Kraken lore, with McCann scoring 27 goals that inaugural expansion campaign and earning the team’s first contract extension – a five-year, $25 million additional payout.
“I’m proud of him,” his mother said. “As long as this is what he wants to do. I tell all my kids: ‘It doesn’t matter to me what you do. If you want to work at Tim Horton’s, or a grocery store, or get a career somewhere else, as long as you’re happy with yourself and what you’re doing, that’s the main thing.’”